If you have a boring sex life, then it’s crucial for your mental and physical health that you begin working on improving it. A healthy, active, and enjoyable sex life can improve every aspect of your life, particularly your confidence and motivation. If you are in a relationship, then improving your sex life will improve your overall relationship satisfaction tremendously. There are myriad ways you can improve your sex life, but some are more effective than others.
In this article, you will find some of the most effective tips for spicing things up in the bedroom:
Try Sex Toys
Sex toys are a great way to spice things up in the bedroom, especially if you have never used one before. They are particularly effective if your partner regularly underperforms because they give you the opportunity to achieve orgasm, as well as them. There are many different types of sex toys, from the extra large dildo to the anal bead. Make sure that you do your research before investing in a sex toy so that you can find one that’s perfect for you. Everybody has their own personal favorite, so find yours.
Many couples forego foreplay, which is a big mistake. Foreplay can be very exciting and can help to make sex more enjoyable. In addition, it acts as a warm-up, which is especially useful if your partner [or yourself] has difficulty getting aroused. Oral sex, kissing, touching, and feeling are all forms of foreplay. You can also use sex toys to practice foreplay. If you are going to practice foreplay, make sure that your partner is okay with it. Don’t just stuff your hands into their pants and start touching them, because they might not enjoy this type of foreplay. Ask them what they like most.
Spicing up your sex life doesn’t necessarily have to take place inside the bedroom. In fact, many find having sex outdoors to be extremely exciting. Outdoor sex can be a great way to breathe new life into your relationship. If you are going to have sex outdoors, make sure that you only ever have sex in discreet, quiet locations, preferably far away from other people. If you are caught, then you can be arrested. You can also have sex in your garden, as long as your neighbors can’t see.
Spontaneous sex can completely change your relationship. Instead of planning sex or only having it in bed, if you feel turned on, initiate sex wherever you are. Spontaneous sex can encourage your partner to be more open when they are turned on, and it can be very exciting. Spontaneous sex links in with outdoor sex in many ways. If you want to have sex, wherever you are, find somewhere discreet and do it. In addition, don’t just have sex in the bedroom, have it all over your house! Have sex on the floor, on the couch, in the kitchen, in the bath, and even on the stairs.
Experimentation can really spice things up. Many people find threesomes with members of the same sex to be incredibly exciting, and very erotic, even if they are straight. Even if you don’t touch a person of the same sex as you, watching them pleasure your partner can be very stimulating. In the heat of the moment, you too might get involved and initiate sex with them also. Experimenting with your sexuality is a very effective way of spicing things up, even if you just find it to be an affirmation of your heterosexuality.
Role-play is a very effective method of spicing your sex life up. There are many different types of role-play for you to practice, from police arrests to illicit encounters. You can find entire blogs and guides dedicated to practicing role-play with your partner, which you can use if you’re stuck for ideas. You can also hire sex workers to role-play with you if you don’t have a partner. If you are going to role-play, then it’s important to come up with a safe word. This is a word that, when uttered, terminates sex. Safe words are particularly important if you are going to practice any extreme fetishes, like BDSM.
If you struggle to get aroused, then you could consider trying an aphrodisiac. In addition to aphrodisiacs, you could try supplements or pharmaceutical medicine. If you think your inability to get aroused is related to your health, then you should visit your doctor, who will be able to refer you to a healthcare provider or prescribe medicine.
If you want to spice things up in the bedroom, then it’s worth giving each suggestion in this article a go. All of the suggestions made here are very effective and have helped millions of couples from all over the world.